Flirting in the early 1900s

My character in 1904 carries a parasol. Parasols were commonly carried by fashionable women and often used to signal a woman’s intentions towards a man. Here are some of the parasol signals she might have learned from her older sisters.

 

Carrying it closed in the left hand — Meet on the first crossing.

Carrying it closed in the right hand by the side — Follow me.

Carrying it elevated in left hand — Desiring acquaintance.

Carrying it over the right shoulder — You can speak to me.

Folding it up — Get rid of your company.

Letting it rest on the left cheek — No.

Letting it rest on the right cheek — Yes.

Striking it on the hand — I am much displeased.

Swinging it to and fro by the handle on left side — I am engaged.

Swinging it to and fro by the handle on the right side — I am married.

Tapping the chin gently — I am in love with another.

Twirling it around — Be careful! We are watched.

Using it as a fan — Introduce me to your company.

With handle to the lips — Kiss me.

References:

Fisher, J., The Little Flirt, 1871

“Parasol Flirtation,” Taranaki Herald, 1891

Sangster, William, Umbrellas and Their History, 1855

Shafer, Daniel R,. Secrets of Life Unveiled, 1877