My character in 1904 carries a parasol. Parasols
were commonly carried by fashionable women and often used to signal a woman’s
intentions towards a man. Here are some of the parasol signals she might have
learned from her older sisters.
Carrying it closed in the left hand — Meet on
the first crossing.
Carrying it closed in the right hand by the
side — Follow me.
Carrying it elevated in left hand — Desiring
acquaintance.
Carrying it over the right shoulder — You can
speak to me.
Folding it up — Get rid of your company.
Letting it rest on the left cheek — No.
Letting it rest on the right cheek — Yes.
Striking it on the hand — I am much
displeased.
Swinging it to and fro by the handle on left
side — I am engaged.
Swinging it to and fro by the handle on the
right side — I am married.
Tapping the chin gently — I am in love with
another.
Twirling it around — Be careful! We are
watched.
Using it as a fan — Introduce me to your
company.
With handle to the lips — Kiss me.
References:
Fisher, J., The Little Flirt, 1871
“Parasol Flirtation,” Taranaki Herald,
1891
Sangster, William, Umbrellas and Their History,
1855
Shafer, Daniel R,. Secrets of Life
Unveiled, 1877
